Away From It All

In a conversation this week with a wonderful young man, who is struggling with the call of God on his life, I was reminded of the words of Christ. Jesus said to his disciples, “Come ye yourselves apart into a desert place, and rest a while:” (Mark 6:31)

This man was expressing his apologies for taking a few days of solitude to recover from what had been a very trying time in his life. Through speaking to him and dealing with my own crazy schedule, I could almost here Christ saying, “Everyone deserves a little rest.” As I spoke with him I became all but convicted myself. The thoughts kept running through my head; “When was the last time you went away alone … When was the last time you took some private time … When was the last time that you spent some quality time with yourself …When was the last time that you went to a Dodgers game … When was the last time you even played a round of golf?”

The longer we talked the worse I felt! In this day and age of “modern convenience” it seems almost impossible to get away from it all. Often times between the cell phone, the Palm Pilot, and the lap top there is not a private moment to be had, and solitude seems galaxies away. Even in the life of a minister and in some cases maybe especially in the life of a minister, it is important that we make the time to work on the relationship with ones self!

I know what some of you may be thinking, “I just don’t have time!” Understand, I am not talking about days in isolation, even though, sometimes that sounds like Heaven. I’m talking about a cup of coffee, or a round of golf. I’m talking about a quiet bath or a good book. With the cell phone turned off and the email far, far away. A place where, for a few moments you are untouchable. A few moments of seclusion and solace.

I promise you, it will make you a better spouse, parent, friend, and even a better Christian! One of the most important relationships you will ever have is the one with you! Don’t neglect you!

As always,
Looking Forward,
Pastor Floyd